Lived Experience Forum

[greenpea]

@Shaz51  I had a big heart to heart with @eth  as I was a very sad pea ....  and went to bed very early because of it 😞 BUT and feeling alot better today 🙂 ex dropped back son2 and bought us all dinner which was nice of him.

[Shaz51]

awwww my super @greenpea , sending you lots of tender hugs

sooo glad that @eth  was with you xx

glad you feel a bit better now

 is it ok if I have a read from last night -- is it on he long rave xx

[greenpea]

@Shaz51  Thank you for asking and of course :)xxxx

[Meowmy]

@greenpea That is wise. I will start again to orrow too, in early afternoon. I am feeling better and enjoyed watching TV this afternoon. Thanks for care.

[Meowmy]

@Shaz51 @thanks for care. Have a good evening.

[Shaz51]

you too @Meowmy 

[Meowmy]

@Shaz51 @greenpea @oceangirl @Zoe7 @Matt12  Hello everyone, I just thought I would write now about this thread. I have come to terms with my past, who I am and who my parents are. I have forgiven their mistakes. I now don’t dwell on this issue anymore and move on with my life. I may have done it too quickly and forcefully that I sank in deep depression and severe anxiety. I am now psychologically relaxed about my parents. I need to slowly build my own life with small steps and learn to have patience.

[greenpea]

@Meowmy  Hi Meowmy and good morning. My father was a non functioning alcoholic and did some pretty dreadful things throughout my life. He has coloured my views on men in particular. Over time I have learned to forgive him because it is better for myself too otherwise I will carry his dealings around with me for the rest of my life and I refuse to let that happen. So yes I think you are also doing the right thing re parents. Sometimes it is best to let things go for our own sanity. Love greenpeaxxxx

[Zoe7]

@Meowmy We cannot change our past but we can be the architects in our future. That does take a lot of strength to do though so wishing your strength and courage to move forward 

[Meowmy]

@Zoe7 @Thanks so much. I am hoping to make baby steps forward. Bit by bit. This afternoon, hope to get some house work done. Wish you a great day. Take care.